own yourself 0:)

Who is your boss ?
I don't mean for you to go in all literal sense and say dude what boss? Will you just let me pass my school maybe ? haha.
Metaphorically speaking, who is it that controls your actions ? It is you ? Or is it the society ?
And You'ld be lying if you say it's you.
Society, this materialistic world has gotta have influence on you in some way or other. And i believe, yeah to an extent its acceptable and required. Because if you don't?  Its when people start calling you self - absorbed. :P


After observing , actually because its too prominent i couldn't help not miss how people around us instead of being the puppet master are the puppet. :o

Because all your life you've been trying to impress people in some way or other, you've cost your self yourownfreakingself ?
I doubt, if even one of us realises that.
Do you know how many cuts did you make into your personality ? So that you're perfect enough to satisfy the materialistic society, who doesn't even care ? Think about it.

Life as we know it is such a race, and each one of us is trying to catch up and fit in? In between all this hustle, we dont exactly get the time to realise that what we just did was the reaction we personally wanted to do or so that the person next to us does not think low of us is why we did that.

I fear that day though when we realise and see how this society which apparently is supposed to be very bonafide, helping people exchange knowledge making world a better place, turns out to be the reason for extinction of uniqueness and independence of ones action. Would be a pretty hilarious day though. How a noun grew over humans. LOL.

Anyways!
It's  complicated we say.
But is it really ?
Next time, do one thing ?
For a moment, just forget about impressing the society, ask yourself what is it that you want. For once think and choose what your heart and mind together says its right. I bet that'll be the correct and the best decision you've ever made. And oh yeah the joy and proudness that comes along? Are complimentary. ;)
You most definitely don't need any other head than yours to decide what you want how you want and why you want ? Cheers!


What's your opinion? Who is your boss ? ;) Comment and lemme know.
Or write me at sakshi180595@gmail.com.
Lalalalala. :)

!ANGER!

The worst feeling. The worst thing that can happen to anyone is ANGER.
Anger makes one do things he/she would probably never do  when in right mind.

I remember , how when in anger the only thing i wanted to do is break the first thing in my sight. Which usually used to be my cellphone , which i for obvious reasons could not afford to break. So had to drop the idea. LOL.
But anyways, breaking things wouldn't really change anything? Would it? Except for yeah you'ld be one less of that item :P your irritation remains.

You know how sometimes you're angry at that one person, and because of that anger you go on ruining your whole day? And as unfortunately you can't get mad at THAT person enough, so you end up  being  mad at every person you meet? Happens with me all the time :o
This makes me wonder now.
Why do we get angry? And then why is it controlling anger always like moving a mountain ? 

I am a very! Short tempered person. You know how they say girls are usually calm and everything ? Hmm. Nono. That's just a myth. :P
The only time my friends say they prefer to do things my way is  when i am angry so that they don't have to hear me shout and scream X_X So I'm searching for ways to control my anger and not vice versa.

And guess what ? I have found my way :D
It's  writing my feelings out. This helps me get over my shit and relax!

HAHAHAHA. As very well said in Hindi "Na rahega baans, na bajegi bansuri" :P

The reason for me to write  about this topic is that i 'was' very mad when i started writing this . But well eventually as this blog3 comes to an end my anger has decreased by tremendous amount.

So what's  in here for YOU? 

I am sure there is always one thing that you love to do no matter what, something that distracts your mind from tensions ? For me its writing it down for some of you it maybe the same or speaking it out to your bff ? Or to watch your fav tv show ? Movie? Reading? Whatever it maybe then ! Just try it ? Whenever in future you get angry, take a deep breath. Do what you really love doing at anytime of the day?  And put all your shit aside. I hope and expect  that you'll  feel much much relieved, happy and chilled ^_^ And then later ofcourse you can go punch that bitch in his/her face. Haha :)

How do you keep your calm ? How do you manage your anger ? Comment and let me know :D

Or you have something to say to me ? Or want to discuss further ? Write me at sakshi180595@gmail.com . :)

Life As It Is.

Nobody said that life is going to be easy. Life is like a stock exchange forum. It has its ups and downs. With the exception ofcourse  that you don't get the option of trying to win or loose for limited number of hours only.You cannot predict it. You cannot outsmart it. But you definitely have control over your life.

Everybody in their lives, i am sure, has been through that phase where life just seems to fall apart. As if the world is against you. Standing there with a room full of people and yet alone. Not knowing what to do. Struggling and doubting your own self. If it was you ? If you have what it takes ? Or is it just karma ?
I say, that's life.I personally have been through such phase recently. I thus can connect understand and share my interpretation of what's actually wrong and what should be done.

We cannot keep blaming karma. Realising that this is just my downphase, Its going to pass, trying again and yet again untill you succeed, is the right thing to do in my eyes. You might have failed today but that does not mean you will never win. Get up! Stand up! Give it an another shot. You'll never know if you'll succeed or fail untill you try and try your level best. I know the first thing that might have struck you after reading this was it's easier said than done. I would just say nobody said that it's going to be easy.

Maybe its just not your day today. We aint no Ross, we'll have our day eventually (JK). So stop fighting yourself. Yes, you deserve to be a winner. World is a swimming pool filled with endless opportunities if not this maybe that's yours, dive in. Discover. Gain. And Shine.

Feel free to share your story :) write me @ sakshi180595@gmail.com

Inspired? comment and share and let other's connect too :)

MY VERY FIRST.

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Okay so. Starting with the much postponed interest finally!! Here it goes.

Hey there to all you guys! :D

Firstly, thanks for showing your interest in my blog.
Myself? Sakshi Gupta.

A regular lazinessstruck-burdenedwithstudies-feelinglifelessmostly-figuringwhattodo-bestinmyownway-teenager as most of you’d be. Haha :P

As the title suggests THIS IS IT. I am basically going to writing about almost anything and everything. That is, maybe it's something I saw today? or a lesson I learned? or hmm let us wait till you read it? ;)

Very much inspired as I am, thanks to my friend Priyanka Sinha :* who writes these AMAZING blogs, I too have initiated to write, share, discuss my ideas. I just want to take this platform to share things which I probably could not say but write down.

So well yeah,

I just hope you have as much fun reading it as much I had writing it.

Let me know how you feel. You? the one reading it? Are my strength, my confidence.

So! You like it? SHARE it.  Want to show appreciation? COMMENT on it. Or you can always write to me at sakshi180595@gmail.com .

P.S. do visit my friend's blog.

Here is the address:

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